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Time of Injustice Blog #9

 Middle School Bullies 

 A of Injustice in my life was in Middle School. I could honestly say was the worst time in my life. It was in the 6th grade when I started to get bullied by some girl who was part of the popular 8th graders. Everytime the girl would see me in the hallway would laugh and make side comments. Make fun of me and asks why I would wear the same sweater everyday to school. The emotional abuse got to a point I would skip class and sleep in the bathroom. All my friends turned against me when they found out the "popular girl" did not like me. I was all alone and had no one to turn to or talk to. Until the day came and I got into a argument with the bully and the police had to break the argument. My mother got called into the office that I have got into a fight and was suspended for a week. I could remember the exact word the officer said, "Your daughter is not an Angel".

This time was a time of injustice. I did not receive any emotional support from the school but a suspension. The problem did not change but got worst, the following year I was sent to another school. In today's time I think there is more awareness and advocacy regarding bullying then back when I was in middle school (2011). I think this awareness started to bring more attention when suicide started to be the end result. After doing some research on the website on today's bullying preventions. I honestly do not believe only talking about it stops bullying but  creating a sense of community and love within a school.

https://www.stopbullying.gov/

Comments

  1. UnknownDecember 2, 2018 at 9:03 PM

    thanks for sharing!

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  2. AnonymousDecember 5, 2018 at 1:56 PM

    I'm really sorry to hear this, but you are so strong! thank you for telling your story!

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